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:( help,What do I do.

34.8k Christiant2  2 days ago

May pastoress is passing away. Even though she's happy, I'm not. I have never experienced grief. I am not prepared to lose her. She is so kind, loving and caring. She has cancer that paralyzed her waist down. She not in pain, but what broke me was my pastor. He cries while thinking of her. I will too, so I am not really in a happy mood and its stressful knowing we could get a call from our pastor. :
I am going to miss her.i have asked her for help. She's been such a close friend. So when she passes. I will take a LONG break. I'm at my weakest. What do I do.
She is the best pastoress, she is cheerful and happy. I do not wanna lose her. 😢
Expect me not to be as active after her passing.
She leaving soon. She hasn't eaten or anything. She's in the final steps of death. 😭😥😢
(Husband and Wife are both pastors. I have 2 ! )

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    34.8k Christiant2

    She's in hospice.

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    35.8k Graingy

    ... That was a typo.
    F

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    35.8k Graingy

    *vm dknedn

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    Well, look on the bright side, you’ll see her in Heaven.

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    "Press F to pay respects" hits hard 😔

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    Sending my condolences, I'm really sorry to hear about this.

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    Best I can say after dealing with grief myself is use the, pretty overused but still relevant, “don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” She woudnt want you to be sad for her and for your life to fall apart because she’s gone, so instead think of her life and why you loved her so much and be happy that you were able to do that. I did that for when my great grandparents passed, when my pets died, and sure enough it helped me beat the grief and sadness. It’s okay to be sad and break down once in a while, but it’s not okay to stay down. They would want you to be happy and live your life while you still have it.

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    :((( i am so sorry for your loss </3

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    7,334 overlord5453

    @Christiant2 any way, if she's sick there's nothing much you can do other than care for her.
    That's just the way it is.

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    7,334 overlord5453

    @Christiant2 i... I don't know. That's why
    I asked 😅

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    34.8k Christiant2

    @overlord5453 What's a female pastor?

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    34.8k Christiant2

    @overlord5453 Yea

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    7,334 overlord5453

    Pastor?

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    34.8k Christiant2

    @TheMouse They have been together for 54 years. My pastor will also have grief.
    He's was A Marine. But yet he still cried.
    She was the kindest human I could have ever know.
    Now its just my pastor.

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    59.0k TheMouse

    @Christiant2
    Nobody expects you not to miss her :)

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    34.8k Christiant2

    @TheMouse Thanks. Still. I will miss her.

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    59.0k TheMouse

    That sounds horrible.
    There is nothing you can do to change the outcome at this point. You know that she is happy, so be happy for her sake. (Would she want you to be this sad?)
    Don't worry about being active, this is more important.
    I hope the end will be relatively painless for her.

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    34.8k Christiant2

    @GuardianAerospace @Noob101 @TheMouse

    2 days ago