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I sometimes feel like I don't deserve this

6,958 SPWithLizzie  5 days ago

I know y'all probably don't know this, but I'm a huge goddamn idiot
I forget, and lose so many things, because I'm an absolute idiot
I lost my dental retainers on Monday, and this is the second time I forgot them this year
And just how tf do people still love me? I can't do anything, I barely have any talents, I have not much else from my intelligence (which I thankfully don't doubt).
I can't dance
I can maybe draw
I suck at the instrument I play, even though I've been playing it for 2 years
And the standards I set up for myself are sometimes so goddamn high
And whenever I forget something, I feel like I just need to be hit, or not treated with the respect I do, I'm just sometimes so goddamn ashamed of myself oh my fucking god

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    4,966 Erionh

    @Graingy yes LAURA

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    42.2k Graingy

    @Erionh Laura dog

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    4,966 Erionh

    @Graingy L aura dog

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    42.2k Graingy

    @Erionh Foam? You mean dog flares?
    I miss those things.
    My dog didn't. Ever.
    I don't think a single one ended up surviving...

    5 days ago
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    An artist is someone who likes to draw, not someone who can paint perfectly.
    You are your own worst critic. That shows that you care.
    Don't fester negative thoughts, it will only lead to more negativity.

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    4,966 Erionh

    @SPWithLizzie hope you feel ok

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    4,966 Erionh

    @Graingy rc airplanes are fun but high risk high reward unless its foam

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    45.2k rexzion

    besides that, talents are not a requirement to be loved and to love. respect yourself and others

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    45.2k rexzion

    everybody makes mistakes, learn from your failures; you are not perfect, no one is, you will always have something to reflect on and improve by that little bit next time, instead of beating yourself up about it

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    42.2k Graingy

    @cicada123 EXTREMELY LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER

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    225 cicada123

    @Graingy No.

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    42.2k Graingy

    @cicada123 Me.

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    225 cicada123

    @Graingy why?

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    42.2k Graingy

    @cicada123 I can personally attest that is not true

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    225 cicada123

    If you put enough hours into one thing, it's impossible to not get good at it !

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    @Graingy yup

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    42.2k Graingy

    @AviationLoverGEEK444 Goodness gracious you people are crazy.

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    @Graingy and yes it’s my own calculation no cameras unless you have fpv

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    @Graingy yeah, but I don’t often crash, unless I’m being stuipid or cocky, example crashing two planes because I’m cocky and smart-ish

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    42.2k Graingy

    @AviationLoverGEEK444 I can't fathom how anyone could invest in a hobby that could set them back thousands in a couple seconds.
    One slip up and that thing is GONE.
    Do they even have cameras and instruments, or are you flying entirely from the group and your own estimation of distance and velocity?

    5 days ago
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    @Graingy it sucks, and I just got a really fancy P-51 and it costed 550 dollers plus 100 because battery cost a lot

    I’m scared to fly it now, especially because it’s a low wing, but all of my others were high wings

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    42.2k Graingy

    @AviationLoverGEEK444 oof

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    Don’t be ashamed, I went flying my new rc plane that’s lik what 20 years old, any way it crash because the CoG is terrible, then the next day I crashed my 1.5m apprentice. 300 dollers in repair, all because I didn’t get good sleep, oh and I got f*caking melted on my math test

    5 days ago
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    42.2k Graingy

    Imagine how I feel.
    I can't do shit.

    5 days ago
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    24.0k FeatherWing

    Hey, it's okay. We're very complex beings and there's a lot that we mess up because we're so complicated. Trust me, I do a lot of messing up, I almost always forget something when I leave the house, there's a lot of things I can't do.

    But, it's okay to be like this. No one is perfect and anyone who says they are, are lying. My opinion? Don't try and set a real high bar for yourself, it only gives you unrealistic expectations about what you can do.

    Everyone has different levels of intelligence, it's not a one and done thing. You can be quite dumb at one thing, but really smart with another. It just takes time to figure out what's what.

    And no matter what, there's about 8.2 billion in the world right now, there's always someone who'll love you regardless of what you may think of yourself. Just being yourself is the key.

    5 days ago
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