I think it will be cool to have a fuel Crossfeed button on detachers and normal parts. For example having a bomb/missile using your fuel is not cool the Crossfeed will be disabled and the engine of the bomb/missile will only use fuel form the bomb/missile. You can also disable Crossfeed to parasite fighters under the wing of a plane for the main plane won't use up all the fuel.
i agree like on ksp (kerbal space program) on steam it has some parts that doesnt have fuel crossfeed like detachers pannels (ect) it would be epic for fuel crossfeed