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Lovesick

3,763 ThatKindaWeeb  3.6 years ago

I have a problem, someone could say I AM that problem, but whatever

I'm being as honest as I can (moderators have mercy ;~;)
I... I'm a pervert (well for anime girls at least but that's besides the point)
I've heard that its best to be at peace with yourself, but would you sympathize with a loser? I thought not.
Before my puberty took control thought I had everything under control, until love hit me like a bullet train. Now I'm 15, and I'm desperate for someone to physically talk to, to bond, one could say...

I'm lonely, and sad. And I dont have many options at the moment I know I'm too young for love, but I care no longer. This feeling of loneliness and self doubt, makes an autistic kid like me feel mentally dead. Devoid of meaning, of purpose. And I... I've done things I'm not allowed to talk about here just to cope with this feeling, but once you do it enough, it stops being 'fun'. I dont want anyone to sympathize with me or tell me I'm degenerate.
I just want help, real physical help, not even therapy works, or helps rather.

I'm not gay,
Im not Lesbian,
I'm a Straight human boy,
forever Lovesick...

"Thou shant be like me, for thee is a mere fool."

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    28.1k YarisSedan

    What the heck did i just read!?

    1.9 years ago
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    162k spefyjerbf

    No problem - happy to help!

    3.6 years ago
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    @spefyjerbf seriously, I look up to the expertise you posses so much that I'd like to have it for my own purposes

    3.6 years ago
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    @spefyjerbf well, at least someone I have an appreciation for decided to say "this is normal"

    3.6 years ago
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    162k spefyjerbf

    15 is a normal age to start developing romantic feelings for your peers, if that is what you are trying to say. No need to shame yourself. Tbh after deciphering this wall of text, all of this seems fairly standard for a teenage boy, so there is no need to feel ashamed. Just don’t do anything to make your peers uncomfortable, and keep everything legal. If you are attracted to someone, don’t be afraid to ask them out or whatever - just be mature about it.

    3.6 years ago
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    49.1k Wogchamp

    Yikes, this is probably one of those things best said to friends and family, not 1000's of kids on a plane building site fyi. Tough situation but there's a time and a place.

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    6,961 Kwoshent

    Btw, it's me your old pal Archanis

    3.6 years ago
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    6,961 Kwoshent

    I don't think that's lovesick, it's more like depression man. You see, we teens have deeper emotions now that we are growing up. We need someone to talk to or at least be with us. What about playing Multiplayer Minecraft? It helps me a ton, or you can choose the Bible, open up about feelings. There's also reddit, or twitter. Or watch YouTube memes, maybe that'll help?

    3.6 years ago
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    137k BaconEggs

    yall need toilet paper

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    31.8k flame0w

    yes, and i dont regret it @AN2Felllla

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    @Mostly A summary of a broken man

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    31.3k Mostly

    What in the fresh hell did I just read

    +6 3.6 years ago
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    Going through puberty you get a bunch of weird thoughts, but you've just gotta recognise them as that. BTW you should stop watching porn, it makes it worse.

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    @MIAW26PERSIAN Do you know what you just said 🤣

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    @TheNightmareCompany @Astro12
    Well, it brings peace to see this therapy, thanks I guess.

    +1 3.6 years ago
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    9,801 HelloX

    Considering I have 4 wanks a night, yes @xXeno

    +4 3.6 years ago
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    27.8k Strucker

    Damn, almost as if teenagers are horny.

    +8 3.6 years ago
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    • I'm not sure about you guys, but religion helps me, just gives me a feeling of belonging and a sense why we are here, I understand if you guys don't care, but just reading form my bible helps me, to see others go through and rely on a divine loving being, it is just nice to have a feeling of purpose. At this moment the states are high and against me, but I can just push through with all the help I have received.
    • And sometimes I mentally shoot the thoughts that suggest negative ideas.
    • If you just put a smile on your face, and see through the clouds, and actively search for the positive, soon you'll find it, or it will find you.
    +5 3.6 years ago
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    19.8k RandomUser09

    Mabye you need body comfort pillow like me.

    3.6 years ago
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    28.3k goboygo1

    @Walvis
    So you went through this too? Please tell me it gets better.

    3.6 years ago
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    geys?

    3.6 years ago
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    bruh.

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    28.3k goboygo1

    Dang... I've had these exact feelings bouncing around inside me for months. Im impressed you had the courage to let them out.

    +4 3.6 years ago
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    55.0k Astro12

    @PioThePioneer
    I see an optimist ...

    But I have a slightly different point of view.
    I don't know if I can translate this quote exactly, but :

    ,,
    - You can never solve all problems. After solving one, there will be another, after that a third. It's an endless cycle.
    - It turns out that everything in life is bad.
    - Not everything... But most of life is pain. With a few moments of peace, of joy... happiness.
    - But if most of life is pain, what do we live for?
    - For these few moments.
    ,,

    @ThatKindaWeeb
    What am I saying? What does not kill, makes stronger. Use that principle. There will be a party on your street, you have to wait for it.

    +3 3.6 years ago
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    @PioThePioneer imma remember that quote at some point (probably not I forget stuff pretty easily)

    3.6 years ago
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